Stung by Cupid
I just made an interesting observation:
Guys and girls experience romantic love differently. Duuuhhh….
But let’s put it this way, secular society priviledges the male point of view in these matters. After perusing Men’s Health and corrobarated by my occasional perusals through women’s magazines (no, I’m not a closet pervert! 
) it’s really about how to get the girl. It’s all about getting what you want.
But since I’m also acquianted with the Christian p.o.v. in these matters, I am beginning to think that it is the women’s point of view that is priveldged when Christian boys and girls start to hush and blush 
After all, we (including me) talk about waiting, finding the right one, being patient… Get the drift.
Tough leh, sometimes I really find it a miracle that people even get attached. Simple things like this also cannot see from the same point of view.
Thinking about it, it seems easier to find that girl you like and marry her in those golden old days. Nowadays, damn extremely complicated (whether you’re a Christian or not.) Must be like this first, must like that first, must have this feeling, must have money, must have style, must wait…
Haih…
